Marriage is a sacred bond where two souls strive to build a contented life. Over the years, we forget to appreciate the presence of our better half, and most of the time, our hearts are filled with bitterness. There might have been some dreams that remained unfulfilled when it comes to a successful couple. These untold resentments might hold a big place in the heart, and women forget to give due respect and show kindness towards their husbands. A man is the head of the family, and when his efforts in keeping the family sustained are appreciated, he forges ahead to create a bright future.
There are numerous ways to be the loving wife to your husband:
1. Keep him in Prayers
A family that prayers together, stays together – is age-old advice, but keep especially your husband in prayers. Often they must be taking business trips, pray for their safety. Ask God to bless him abundantly in all his endeavors so that he can do the best for his family. Most importantly prayer for his excellent health and a sound mind. Little prayers always help you conquer big problems.
2. Full Attention
While it gets busy with kids and all the housework, it becomes increasingly difficult to invest in private speech as a couple. Listen to your loved one. He may hide his problems from you. It might be his job, his finances, or something related to his health. Men do not discuss things easily with women, hence give him your time. Look him in the eye when you talk, let him know you are with him no matter what. Plan some special date night and engage in deep conversations.
3. Pay attention to his needs
Do little untold things for him, cook his favorite meals, return library books if he doesn’t have the time to do that. Do his shopping, take charge of the bills. He may not mention it, but a helping hand will do wonders for your relationship. Do not just be busy with kids and their needs, grow together as a couple.
4.Remember his Likes
He loves adventure, then goes for some daring trips together. Play his favorite album, gift him his favorite video games, order his favorite snack, shop for things that he always wanted. It knows your partner inside out that makes the relationship special.
5.Be a Cheerleader
Every woman wants a man who can give her the luxuries of life. But remember life is not the same always when in rough times learn to cheer him up. Do not be a naysayer and criticize him for his failures. Insecurities and financial struggles will pass, but do not destroy a healthy relationship based on material comforts.
Call him unexpected at work, leave lovey-dovey sticky notes, send him romantic messages over the phone. Make him feel loved and wanted throughout the day, who knows you might get a beautiful gift or a unique date at the end of the day.
7.Know what makes him tick
It is not necessary to stay stuck 24×7, know his happy needs. Allow him the time out with friends, read a book, take a nap, go out on long trips if he feels the need to recharge. Faith and honesty are the pillars of any relationship. Being honest with your partner about enjoying your personal space is a sign of a friendly relation.
8.Avoid being Clingy
Being independent about your needs makes you an attractive woman. Avoid being too clingy in a relationship, do not harbor jealousy or suspicion regarding your partner. Focus on being kind and respectful. Love your husband the way to crave love also practice freedom.